Optimize performance of regular expression filtering #905

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The performance of the ~ operators, introduced in #870 will likely be non ideal due to the interface of the arrow kernel used, as described in apache/arrow-rs#697

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If/when the kernel of apache/arrow-rs#697 is implemented, the idea would be to switch datafusion to use those kernels.

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