Support GroupsAccumulator accumulator for User Defined Functions #8793

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

Many of DataFusion's built in accumlators use the GroupsAccumulator interface for a significant performance improvement

See the blog post for more details

However, it is not currently possible to use [GroupsAccumulator] with user defined Aggregate functions , which is less than ideal for 2 reasons:

1. User's can't take advantage of the faster interface
2. We can't port built in Aggregate functions to use the same API [Epic] Unify AggregateFunction Interface (remove built in list of AggregateFunction s), improve the system #8708

Describe the solution you'd like

I would like to extend the AggregateUDFImpl trait added by @guojidan in #8733 with a new method that returns a GroupsAccumulator

1. Add new methods to AggregateUDFImpl
2. Wire in the the call into the impl for AggregateExpr https://github.com/apache/arrow-datafusion/blob/dd58c5a7b0069e3bade997abad9ec6bed8c8a1c3/datafusion/physical-plan/src/udaf.rs#L75
3. Update advanced_udaf.rs example to create a GroupsAccumulator

Adding new methods to AggregateUDFImpl:

Following the model of PartitionEvaluator and groups_accumulator_supported

pub trait AggregateUDFImpl {
...
    /// If the aggregate expression has a specialized
    /// [`GroupsAccumulator`] implementation. If this returns true,
    /// `[Self::create_groups_accumulator`] will be called.
    fn groups_accumulator_supported(&self) -> bool {
        false
    }

   /// Return a specialized [`GroupsAccumulator`] that manages state
    /// for all groups.
    ///
    /// For maximum performance, a [`GroupsAccumulator`] should be
    /// implemented in addition to [`Accumulator`].
    fn create_groups_accumulator(&self) -> Result<Box<dyn GroupsAccumulator>> {
        not_impl_err!("GroupsAccumulator hasn't been implemented for {self:?} yet")
    }

}

Describe alternatives you've considered

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Additional context

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