Make DiskManagerBuilder to construct DiskManagers #15319

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

Creating a DiskManager today is somewhat awkward as described by @2010YOUY01 in #14975 (comment)

It would be nice to follow the builder pattern that is used elsewhere in DataFusion such a RuntimeEnvBuilder -- see example

Describe the solution you'd like

I would like to have an API that looks like this (the with_max_temp_directory_size is part of #14975)

let manager: Arc<DiskManager> = DiskManagerBuilder::new()
  .with_max_temp_directory_size(100*1024*1024)
  .build_arc();

Describe alternatives you've considered

I suggest:

1. Renaming DiskManagerConfig to DiskManagerBuilder
2. Leave a backwards compatible deprecated type (like is here

   datafusion/datafusion/execution/src/runtime_env.rs

   Lines 165 to 166 in 8e2bfa4

   	#[deprecated(since = "43.0.0", note = "please use `RuntimeEnvBuilder` instead")]
   	pub type RuntimeConfig = RuntimeEnvBuilder;

   )
3. Deprecate DiskManager::try_new
4. Add documentation example on DiskManager, similarly to the example on RuntimeEnv

Additional context

No response